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Hypnotherapy - your questions answered ...
How does hypnosis work?
What can hypnotherapy do?
Can
hypnotherapy help me?
Suggestion or analytical therapy?
FAQ
- Myths and realities
We've all heard the statistics that we only use around 10% of our minds. What if you could harness some of the other 90% and use its power to make changes that will enhance your life?
Deep within you are the feelings, beliefs, habits and patterns that are keeping you where you are. Hypnotherapy is the use of hypnosis to access the subconscious in order to release old patterns, heal, and reprogram for success and well-being. When you begin to intervene on the level of the deeper mind, real change can take place.
Most of us go in and out of light states of self-hypnosis many times a day - when we 'drift off' into a world of our own. All we do in hypnotherapy is focus and deepen this natural state and help you use it constructively. Everyone can experience hypnosis if they want to. Since 'all hypnosis is self-hypnosis,' you are simply being guided to use a natural ability you already have.
Hypnotherapy
can change your life and may be the key to unlocking your full potential!
To
understand how hypnosis works, we need to be familiar with the workings of the
mind. In simple terms, our mind consists of two components: the conscious mind,
and the subconscious mind.
The conscious mind
Our conscious mind, or logical mind, is located in the left hemisphere of the
brain and performs analytical duties, rationalizes, uses willpower in attempts
to change personal habits, and serves as our short-term memory.
Our conscious mind finds it difficult to change bad habits. The use of willpower
alone will generally only initiate a desire to change, but we will generally
be unsuccessful at eliminating the presenting problem.
The conscious mind also contains what is known as the critical factor, which
operates automatically when you are using your conscious mind. The critical
factor can be thought of as protecting the status quo of your beliefs and must
be bypassed in order for you to accept any suggestion that conflicts with your
existing beliefs.
The Subconscious Mind
Our subconscious mind is located in the right hemisphere of the brain and deals
with habits, emotions, long-term memory, and self-preservation. It is this part
of the mind that the hypnotherapist focuses on, and the part through which it
is possible to bypass the critical factor in order to bring about positive change.
The subconscious mind is far better at changing bad habits by readily accepting
positive suggestions. Through positive suggestion, hypnosis is able to change
an individual’s beliefs, attitudes, or behaviours for that person’s
benefit.
Perhaps this can be easier understood if we consider the following metaphor
…
For instance, we can consider the parts of the mind in terms of a computer.
Our subconscious mind could be referred to as the hard-drive. A hypnotherapist
could be seen as a computer programmer.
It is well known that computers are complex pieces of equipment that hold masses
of information.
In the same way, our subconscious mind contains everything we have ever done
in our lives. We have picked up certain behaviours and habits alone the way
since birth and these have become an integral part of us.
Habits and behaviours are extremely difficult to change at a conscious level.
However, a hypnotherapist is able to retrieve the ‘old files’ and
re-write these before replacing them in our hard-drive. In this way it is possible
to reprogram your subconscious mind with positive suggestions to replace to
negative ones.
What
can hypnotherapy do?
Hypnotherapy is the application of hypnotic techniques in such a way as to bring about beneficial changes. Hypnotherapists assist in activating the inner resources of a person in order to achieve realistic goals.
Hypnothereapy can be used to treat a variety of psychological and somatic problems. Medical issues can also be dealt with using hypnosis, but this is only undertaken following a doctor’s referral. The problems that hypnotherapy is best placed to help with fall into the following broad classes:
Thoughts
and ideas
People can suffer from thoughts of low self-esteem, or obsessive thoughts about
someone or something. For example, they may not be able to get out of their
minds the idea that they are suffering from an illness, despite medical reassurance,
or that a partner is being unfaithful. HYPNOTHERAPY can help the client to change
such ideas.
Feelings
People can suffer from a wide range of distressing feelings such as panic attacks,
anxiety, jealousy, guilt, anger or inadequacy. Whatever the problem feeling,
HYPNOTHERAPY can deal with it more specifically than can a drug - and without
harmful side effects.
Habits
People can find themselves in the grip of many habits that they seem unable
to control, from something like nail biting or smoking to more deep-seated compulsions.
HYPNOTHERAPY, using hypnotic techniques, can help to remove habits with precision
and again, a total freedom from side effects.
Phobias
People often experience an irrational fear of a variety of insects, animals,
objects or situations and HYPNOTHERAPY is particularly effective in assisting
sufferers to overcome these distressing and inhibiting conditions.
Can
hypnotherapy help me?
-
Would you like to be more confident, more relaxed and more self-assured?
- Have you a habit from which you would like to be free?
- Do you find yourself suffering from stress and anxiety?
- Are you indecisive and unsure of yourself?
These are just a few examples, but if you answered “yes” to any of the above, then hypnotherapy can help you.
Hypnotherapy is extremely flexible and can help in the treatment of a huge range of conditions. Here are a few examples of some of the more common conditions hypnotherapists are called on to help with:
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list is not exhaustive… so if you would like to discuss whether hypnotherapy
can help you, please contact me.
Suggestion
or analytical therapy?
Hypnotic
suggestion is the treatment that most people probably expect to receive when
considering an appointment with a hypnotherapist. Positively phrased suggestions
are offered to your unconscious mind in order to bring about the desired change.
As long as these suggestions are accepted by your unconscious, you will respond
automatically and enjoy the benefits.
For confidence boosting, or improved relaxation hypnotic suggestions can be
invaluable. For studying and exam situations too, suggestions can relieve anxiety,
improve concentration and memory recall. Suggestion can also be very effective
in treating habits such as nail-biting, smoking and over eating.
Hypno-analysis, on the other hand, works upon the principle of cause and effect.
This means that if you have a problem or symptom, it is there as a result of
an underlying cause. When this underlying cause is resolved, the symptom becomes
redundant and disappears. As long as the underlying cause is completely resolved
there is no reason for the problem to return.
Analytical therapy, or hypno-anaylsis, takes place over a period of several
weeks, with weekly sessions lasting around one hour. Compared to psycho-analysis,
which typically takes around 1000 hours of therapy, hypno-analysis is an extremely
fast therapy.
Both therapies may be used during the course of treatment.
Hypnotherapy
FAQ – the Myths and the Realities
What
is hypnosis?
Hypnosis is quite simply a state of mind. It is not sleep, it is not being unconscious
or out-of-control – these are rather misleading images portrayed by film,
stage and TV. In fact, hypnosis is a very natural state of mind that we all
enter into several times a day.
Hypnosis has often been described as a state of relaxation whereby your mind can become more focused on a particular thought or idea. Most of us experience a constant stream of jumbled thoughts throughout our daily lives. Hypnosis allows us to filter out the “noise” for a while.
We all spontaneously enter hypnotic states everyday, without realising. Imagine the last good movie you became engrossed in...or a good book you just couldn't put down... you were possibly so focused on these that you may have forgotten all the things going on around you.
That's really all there is to hypnosis. Hypnosis is very natural and is used as a ‘tool’ for the much more important ‘therapy’ part of the process.
What
is the difference between hypnosis and hypnotherapy?
Hypnosis is the state that a person experiences. Hypnotherapy is using that
state for beneficial purposes.
What
is hypnotherapy?
In hypnotherapy you are guided into hypnosis for therapeutic purposes.
How
exactly does hypnotherapy work?
The therapist uses a form of words that encourages the mind to relax, giving
you access to your subconscious and allowing you to suggest things to it. But
the key point is that it is you who allows your mind to go into this state;
a hypnotherapist can neither induce it nor keep you in a state of hypnosis against
your will. Going into hypnosis relies on your interest and willingness to be
guided into this different state of consciousness.
How
can it help me?
Many people find hypnotherapy helps them get on top of one particular aspect
of their lives, such as improving their confidence and self-esteem; feeling
free from anxiety and panic attacks; tackling a specific challenge such as public
speaking, an interview, or a driving test; achieving long-term goals such as
reducing their weight, stopping smoking or nail-biting; beating a fear; or simply
moving on from not believing they can succeed. It is basically a form of life
coaching.
How
many sessions will I need?
There is, of course, a considerable variation in the difficulty of the various
problems, and there is no general rule which makes it possible to say how much
improvement can be achieved and in how much time. The simpler problems can at
times be overcome completely in one session; hypnosis can be extremely effective.
More deeply rooted problems may take longer.
During your initial consultation I will be able to give you some idea of how many sessions you may require. As a guideline, resolving simple habits may take only one or two sessions whereas hypno-analytical work is typically completed within six to twelve weekly sessions. Smoking cessation is typically completed in one session of around 90 minutes.
How
long does a session last?
A session will usually take one hour. A stop smoking session will normally take
90 minutes.
What
will a session be like?
Each session is specifically tailored to the individual and their specific issues.
I may teach and encourage you to learn and use techniques outside of the hypnotherapy session. If you practise these, it will enable you to move on much more rapidly.
What
if I can’t be hypnotised?
All hypnosis is really self-hypnosis, in that you allow yourself to drift into
it, easily and effortlessly. The experience is open to anyone who desires it.
If you want to, you can.
Can
anyone be hypnotised?
Yes, anyone can be hypnotised as long as they want to be. A hypnotherapist cannot
force a person to go into hypnosis against their will. As trance is a natural
state for human beings anyone can be hypnotised. Hypnosis is essentially the
induction of the naturally occurring mental state of trance. However, there
are some people for whom clinical hypnotherapy is not the most appropriate therapy,
for example, those with certain neurological conditions and anyone diagnosed
with a psychotic illness.
Will
I be aware of what’s happening?
Yes, you will be aware of everything that is happening, in fact if anything
you will be more aware of what is going on around you. Although your eyes are
closed your other senses tend to increase their awareness and sensitivity.
How
does it feel?
It tends to be a very “normal” experience, a bit like day-dreaming,
but with the added benefit of an unparalleled sense of relaxation and calmness.
Hypnosis can feel so natural that the person experiencing hypnosis may not actually
be aware that they are in trance. Most people just simply feel very relaxed.
Will
I remember what happened during hypnosis?
You will be aware of everything around you, and remember most, if not all, that
happened in the session. Occasionally your mind will wander during part of a
session and it will be difficult for you to recall events during this period,
but you will remember events around this period.
Will
I lose control?
Some people are afraid that they will 'lose control' or 'give up their power'
in hypnosis, but nothing could be further from the truth. When hypnosis is used
for therapeutic purposes, it is nothing like what you see on stage. Though you
are deeply relaxed, you are aware at all times and definitely in control.
At no time can you be made to do anything against your will, morals, beliefs, principles or ethics. There is no question of being controlled, manipulated or influenced whilst in a hypnotic state.
In fact, you will remain in control of all your faculties except one. You will be able to hear, see, feel, taste, and speak. The single exception is the critical faculty, the part of you that normally puts up resistance. If you're given a suggestion that pleases you and which seems emotionally and morally reasonable, you will accept it.
Will
I be forced to accept suggestions?
No. Your mind is very protective of you and you will not accept any suggestions
that go against your morals or beliefs. An ethical hypnotherapist would only
offer suggestions that are of benefit to you.
All the suggestions offered to you will relate directly to discussions you have had with your therapist and will focus on what you genuinely wish to achieve.
How
can I find out more before committing myself?
I offer a free initial consultation, lasting 30-40 minutes. During this meeting,
your symptoms/issues are discussed and you have the opportunity to ask further
questions. You are under no obligation to proceed with hypnotherapy.
The initial introductory appointment is given free of charge. This is so that you can judge for yourself (without obligation or cost) whether you want to pursue therapy. It also gives me an opportunity to establish the most suitable therapy for your needs, and best way I feel that I can assist you to overcome your problems in the shortest possible time.
What
should I expect during hypno-analysis?
While under hypnosis, a person may be able to access past events that they have
‘forgotten’ (or suppressed). A hypnotherapist trained in advanced
techniques will use analytical skills to bring these ‘hidden’ memories
to the surface so that past negative programming and negative beliefs can be
examined and their effect on the psyche neutralised…
These negative memories are often caused by judgemental parents, insensitive teachers, relatives or peers and can have a deep effect on a person’s life.
Hypno-analysis can reveal the causes of certain issues, create understanding and modify self-doubts and beliefs, enabling individuals to achieve their full potential.
Does
hypnotherapy work?
Yes. Hypnosis has fascinated psychologists and medical professionals for over
a century and has been subject to a great deal of rigorous testing and research.
It promotes the awareness of the importance of our thoughts on our reality.
Habitual negative thoughts can be replaced by realistic and positive thoughts
so that we can enjoy a calm, relaxed and confident lifestyle.
Is
hypnotherapy legally recognised?
‘Hypnotism’ is legally acknowledged and defined by the Hypnotism
Act 1952, in the UK Book of Statutes. In their 1892 Hypnotism Report, the British
Medical Association (BMA) officially recognises the hypnotic trance: ‘The
Committee, having completed such investigation of hypnotism as time permitted,
have to report that they have satisfied themselves of the genuineness of the
hypnotic state.’ The Committee also acknowledged that ‘as a therapeutic
agent hypnotism is frequently effective in relieving pain, procuring sleep,
and alleviating many functional ailments’ (BMA, 1892).
In 1955 a follow-up report was commissioned which endorsed the findings of the original 1892 Committee, and added the conclusions that ‘hypnotism is of value and may be the treatment of choice in some cases of so-called psycho-somatic disorder and psycho-neurosis. It may also be of value for revealing unrecognised motives and conflicts in such conditions.’
Is
hypnotherapy like stage hypnosis?
Not at all. Stage hypnotism is largely showmanship with a very small amount
of hypnosis. Techniques are used to select people who are highly suggestible.
Is
hypnosis safe?
Absolutely. There are no known records of anyone having been physically or mentally
harmed as a direct result of hypnosis itself. It is utterly impossible for anyone
to get ‘stuck’ in hypnosis.
What
if there’s an emergency?
If something were to happen that requires full conscious attention, for example
if a fire alarm were to sound, then the trance state would be spontaneously
terminated. Even in the deepest trance, you remain in full control with an awareness
of what is happening.
Will
hypnosis make me say things I wouldn’t otherwise?
Be assured that your subconscious will only communicate what you're ready to
reveal, and only what will bring clarity to your understanding in the here-and-now.
Can
Hypnosis make me do something against my will?
Absolutely not. This is probably the biggest myth of all. You will never do
anything, or accept any suggestion that violates your morals or values. Stage
hypnotists appear to make people do outrageous things while hypnotised, but
the truth is that the stage hypnotist chooses his subjects very carefully, ensuring
that they are very willing participants.
What
if I don't wake up?
No one has ever got stuck in a terminal state of hypnosis. It simply cannot
happen. If the hypnotist left the room, or if you were listening to a tape and
the power went out, you would either fall asleep and wake up naturally, or your
subconscious mind would detect that there is no voice guiding you and bring
you to conscious awareness.
I am a contact lens wearer, what should I do?
Due to the amount of time that the eyes will be closed, contact lenses should
be removed.
Will
I be able to drive afterwards?
Absolutely.
Important Information:
Hypnosis
can help a wide range of health problems, but if you are suffering from pain,
illness or injury you must consult your doctor first. Please do not stop taking
any medications without consulting your doctor.